Find the Blessings of Your Divorce

Salli's Divorce Support Blog


"Relationships and marriage are a co-creative process. You are both responsible ( for your divorce), as you both have played a part in its creation. Hence, you both have lessons to learn. Fixing blame on yourself or your ex results in not learning the lessons and sets you up to repeat mistakes in the future. Develop the capacity to learn from your experience, including your mistakes. What you gain is the gift of new wisdom.


"Deep lessons are learned when we are challenged. The learning of these deeps lessons catalyzes our growth as a human being. Realize that on the flip side of the pains of divorce lie gifts. Finding and receiving these gifts will empower you. Use the empowerment of this new wisdom to transform and become the person you truly want to be.


"Do not define yourself by what happens to you in life. Instead, define yourself by how you handle what happens to you. A successful divorce recovery requires commitment to inner work. Learn the lessons, find the gifts, and grow as a human being.


"Your divorce is not a failure. It's a closing chapter in your life and it's up to you to write what's next."

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Divorced and full of fret and regret, I found my 'Reason for Living' on the internet. Now, my life is lots of fun, married in Portland, Oregon.

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